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Master Nebula: Encouragement and Blame

2019-3-11 15:02| 发布者: 左二爷| 查看: 88| 评论: 0|来自: 成都耍耍论坛www.scshua114.com

摘要: 'Encouragement instead of blame, praise instead of scolding'. This is not only the best way to educate, but also the best way to do things.There are many reasons for friction when people get along wit ...
'Encouragement instead of blame, praise instead of scolding'. This is not only the best way to educate, but also the best way to do things.

There are many reasons for friction when people get along with each other, but the main one is that because there are too many blames and too few encouragements and compliments, the greatest shortcomings of doing things are the departure of subordinates and friends.

We have two eyes, which are used to see people: to see people's faults, to see people's mistakes, to see people's shortcomings, to see people's bad; but we just can't see ourselves.

Man, with a mouth, likes to talk about people's faults, shortcomings, and even praise and destroy him. Because the voice of the mouth is for others to listen to, they will not hear. Some parents blame their children too much, and their children stay away from him; some couples blame each other too much, and the marriage lights up red; some friends only blame each other for their lack of friendship and refuse to self-criticize, so it is very difficult to make friends.

It is not impossible to blame people for getting along with each other. The Spring and Autumn Period reproaches the sages, but only if they are sages can they be reproached. He who has no strength needs encouragement more. Marathon races require a lot of applause to help him discover the power of instinct. National medals, certificates, bonuses and various honors should be encouraged.

Cats and dogs also like to listen to the praise of their owners; horses and cattle, also hope to have the encouragement of their owners. Trees, flowers and plants also need to be moistened by the wind, rain and dew in order to grow up; frustrated people may be encouraged by a kind words of comfort, thus embarking on a brilliant future.

In today's society, people with low status, such as peasants, workers, poor people and subordinates, are vulnerable to criticism from their superiors. In fact, in high places, because they can not meet everyone's requirements, he will also incur the blame of the whole people.

In the past, the monastery said in the jungle:'Dogs who have been in the house for three years are disgusted!' Because too much blame can spoil good things, and even improper encouragement can sometimes lead to bad consequences. However, we prefer to'use encouragement instead of blame, praise instead of scolding'; because, after all, people still want to be encouraged and praised, then why should we be stingy to give some praise to help others and achieve others?

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